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Thursday, August 7, 2014

Things You Learn

~ I learned that I still hate public speaking with every fiber of my being.  But I also learned I don't suck.  I just still hate it.  There's too much to think about and it's just much too stressful.

~ I learned that so called "professional" speakers like to focus on rules that were pulled from 1962, including, women shouldn't have brightly colored finger nails, and men should not forget to comb the back of their hair when they're combing the front.  Yes, these were 2 rules that were covered in class this week during the "Being a Good Presenter" lesson.

~ I learned that body language that I believe signals relaxed and in control actually means (in pro speak) lazy and rude, such as walking & talking with one hand in the pocket.  I've seen countless speakers do it and I think it signals that the speaker is relaxed and confident.  But apparently I'm wrong...

~ I learned that I speak too quickly, quietly and "click my tongue" when speaking in front of a group - actual feedback I received on my presentation, mind you.

~ I learned that there must be a secret code in regards to moving around during a presentation, because I apparently didn't walk enough, while another speaker walked too much.  

~ While I'm still terrified of going in front of large groups and secretly wish I could change that, I learned that those people that become professionals at it are downright condescending to those that aren't.

~ Lastly, I learned the dudes and one dude-ette not counting me, that I work with are fantastic speakers and gave such great presentations that it was hard not to get excited for them.  During one presentation, we actually made a wallet!   How cool is that!?  Though, super happy I didn't have to follow that one : )

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